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Moreover, we have our daughter. That's another reason.
Right. Again very important. So, being married, I think the choice would be much easier to make. However, not being married, as you said, probably presents a much more difficult choice to make. You are not fully committed yet to this relationship, maybe. It depends on what you think then of the commitment you made upon getting engaged. Does that amount to the same kind of commitment for you as the actual marriage or not.
If I were in that situation, I would choose to marry her, because if I make my mind to marry somebody, that means spend my entire life to somebody else. Such decision wouldn't be easy. I will consider that decision for a very long time and very seriously. After that consideration, I choose to make that decision, I wouldn't desert such person.
For you, being engaged basically means you have made the same commitment as if you were married, there's no difference. Once you're engaged, that's it. You're committed to that person the same as if you were now married. OK. I understand. So, you would carry on with the relationship and proceed to get married to that person. Yeah.
Hearing him, I changed my mind again. I think I could give you answer.
You were feeling guilty?
Imagining that I were a paraplegic, I would definitely want my fiancee to be with me forever. Yes. Everybody is egoistic. I don't know whether I want to do it or not, bit I'm sure I should do it.
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