Paraplegic - 3
I think there are many cases, though, where the person who has become a paraplegic might try very strongly to get you to change your mind. Because once they become disabled and in that condition, if they really love you also at the same time, they may want to free you so that you would not be burdened by their disability. And being with someone who is paraplegic would definitely be a burden because of all the things you have to do for them. So, there are some people who would make the decision to leave, because the other person would not want them to stay. Not because they didn't want, but because other people, the other person who was paraplegic may not want to you to stay. Because they know how difficult your life would become. So I think that presents another problem, another side of the issue.
Maybe it could be related to his or our financial condition.
Right, as well.
If I were rich, it's a difficult question, but it's rather easier.
Yeah, some easier. Right. Because the cost involved with this situation is also very high. Yeah, a very difficult life decision to have to make. But I agree with what you were saying earlier about if you've already reached the stage of being engaged, I think in your heart and mind, you've already committed to that relationship. And it would be more difficult to back out of that at that point. I think that this might well be a test to see if you really were in love with that person or not. Would your mind change because of the person's disability, and maybe then you didn't love them so much in the first place. So that's another situation.
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